TY - BOOK AU - Henry, Chessie. TI - We can make a life SN - 9781776561940 AV - R678.H45 H46 2018 U1 - 993.83 PY - 2018/// CY - Wellington : PB - Victoria University Press, KW - Henry, Chessie, KW - Henry, Chris, KW - Christchurch Earthquake (New Zealand : 2011) KW - fast KW - Physicians KW - New Zealand KW - Kaikoura KW - Biography KW - Christchurch Earthquake, N.Z., 2011 KW - Burn out (Psychology) KW - Personal narratives KW - Christchurch N1 - "A memoir of family, earthquakes and courage" -- cover; Hāpuku -- Drummond Street -- 17 July 1960 -- Talismans -- Philippa -- Windfall -- Africa -- Sumner -- Kids -- Tokelau -- Going home -- Falling through -- The Fallen Gull Club -- Grand plans -- The river -- India -- Christchurch, 22 February 2011 -- After -- Abi -- Hard work -- Election 2017 -- Kaikōura, 14 November 2016 -- A deep loss -- Brave -- We can make a life N2 - Hours after the 2011 Christchuch Earthquake, Kaikoura-based doctor Chris Henry crawled through the burning CTV building to rescue those who were trapped. Six years later, his daughter Chessie interviews him in an attempt to understand the trauma that led her father to burnout, in the process unravelling stories and memories from her own remarkable family history. Chessie rebuilds her family's lives on the page, from her parents' honeymoon across Africa, to living in Tokelau as one of five children under ten before returning to New Zealand, where her mother would set her heart and home in the Clarence Valley only to see it devastated in the 2016 Kaikoura Earthquake, and the family displaced. Written with the same love and compassion that defines her family's courage and strength, We Can Make a Life is an extraordinary memoir about the psychological cost of heroism, home and belonging, and how a family made a life together. I'd always felt that I was emotional because I had been raised by emotional people: talking right from the beginning, unafraid of tears or love or closeness. Was it entrenched in us, to feel things too much? Would we have to fight it away - the black shape at the edges, bounding after us, a smudge of darkness in an otherwise colourful scene ER -