TY - BOOK AU - Irving Hendry, Tricia, AU - Taylor Smith, John. AU - McIntosh, Jenny. ED - Skylight (Organization) TI - The anger toolbox: tools for children and teens, and for those caring for them, to get through angry times SN - 9780958265584 U1 - 649.64 23 PY - 2011/// CY - Wellington, N.Z. PB - Skylight KW - Anger in children KW - Anger in adolescence KW - Interpersonal relations in children KW - Interpersonal relations in adolescence N1 - Cover title; Previous ed. 2003; "This handbooks offers a wide range of key information and practical tools for parents and other adults to help children and young people they care for, and themselves, through angry times"--Back cover; What is anger? -- What happens in our brains when we get angry? -- When our basic human needs aren't met -- Does being a boy or a girl make any difference? -- Can anger ever be helpful? -- Anger is very physical -- Other ways anger can show itself -- What can trigger anger? -- Adults get angry too! -- 15 honest questions to ask yourself -- If your own anger starts building up -- If you are ever in danger of hurting your child or teen -- A look in the mirror can help -- Creating a positive family and whānau -- Teaching about feelings helps -- What makes your child or teen tick? -- Accept the person, shape the behaviour -- Make a plan -- A home and school partnership plan in action -- What if their anger is extreme? -- If a child or teen hurts others in your home -- Some things to keep in mind -- What about bullying? -- Tools for cooling down -- The time out tool -- Tools for letting it out -- Tools for managing tantrums -- When brothers and sisters fight -- Angry teens -- When children and teens with special needs get angry -- When grandparents are raising grandchildren -- Anger in the middle of tough life situations -- After the anger -- Make time to get talking -- Need some extra help and support? -- Helpful organisations -- Further information and useful websites N2 - "This handbooks offers a wide range of key information and practical tools for parents and other adults to help children and young people they care for, and themselves, through angry times"--Page 4 of cover ER -